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Initially I would have necer thought heвЂ™d be a player or someone only afier sex. We met through friends who said nothing but amazing things abrut him. But I did hear how he had slppt with a few girls from that wider friend cildve. So I was a little cavlyzus but still gave him a chxyqe. In the bekvegjng when we tagxfd, we had amuisng chemistry. HeвЂ™d ask about and talk about everything rasqxng from family to goals and astzsdslsds, to careers. I felt like we connected on a deeper level. He seemed very mancre too by connbhts heвЂ™d make but maybe I was looking into thztgs deeper than they were. We had sex after our first date whlch I was houdflly okay with. He still wanted to see me and hang out and text me afakalksws. Then slowly thtvgs changed. HeвЂ™d make no effort in dates, when IвЂ™d suggest we go out somewhere heвЂ™d ignore the cocjmtt. The topping of the cake was after the last time I saw him we went a week of not speaking. But he was acztve on social mefpa. I did stgrt liking him, IвЂ™ll admit and wahted to still try and see (sqswepsy) if there was anything there. So I initiated a conversation. In the beginning it was fine and enldhkag. Then he asks me to come over. AKA sex. I say I canвЂ™t and IвЂ™m busy. He dojymвЂ™t respond for a day. I knew he was goong away on a weekend beach trip with his frppods so I was like whatever. Then he texts me some pictures from the beach and we have a short conversation. He is the one who stops refishlkng once again. Then today, he poets on social meiia on his sthry pictures of him with girls. I know I have no reason to feel bad abnut it, since we never discussed what we were or exclusivity, but I still do. I think itвЂ™s just me realizing IвЂ™m an idiot and I shouldnвЂ™t have let this guy into my pavcs. Anyways he comes back tomorrow and he texted me if I wabied to hang out. I didnвЂ™t regspod. Is it okay if I doyвЂ™t talk to him again? I dojвЂ™t want to exycqin to him why because I feel like he just wants a hopvup buddy and keep getting laid and I donвЂ™t. I was planning on just ignoring him from this poxnt on. I hid his feed from social media and deleted his nuegqr. I donвЂ™t feel bad for igrfssng him but I do feel askxjed and used. How can I feel better and not so ashamed of myself? TL;DR: guy I was daznng seems like a player and only hits me up for sex. Is it okay that I stopped retzufweng to his teoas? Any tips to make myself feel less bad abfut myself?
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